I Would Prefer Not To…

melvilleI’m not sure if “I would prefer not to” is the exact expression, but whatever Bartleby the Scrivener’s refrain is, it’s drawn a fair share of naysaying praise (oxymoron alert!) from the curmudgeons of the world (and they are legion). Making a list of my own, I see that some things I always prefer not to do, others I occasionally prefer not to do, and a last group I never prefer not to do (Double Negative Heaven)! With apologies to Herman Melville, then…

I always prefer not to…

  • take a group selfie… Instead I ask a nearby stranger to photograph us (people love easy ways to help their fellow man) or take a picture of the remaining members of my party myself.
  • take a “pure” selfie while smiling at (bad) or contorting (worse) my face… I’m not sure what “lone selfies” are a metaphor for, but it isn’t good.
  • watch a television series religiously (the time investment!).
  • go to more than one movie a year (see above!).
  • eat liver (if New Hampshire’s motto was “Eat Liver or Die!” I’d choose Hades’ man cave, thank you).
  • buy a cellphone (computers are one tether enough).
  • visit India, China, or any other places featuring the madding crowds.
  • watch Super Bowl halftime shows… ever.

I occasionally prefer not to…

  • visit New York City (see above — crowds, comma, madding — though I have broken this rule for love).
  • wear a tie at formal events (older, bolder, less likely to care about image — within reason).
  • watch Super Bowl commercials.
  • meet my vow to avoid gluten every day.
  • meet my vow to eat less than 25 grams of sugar every day.
  • plain watch what I eat every day.
  • sit more than 20 minutes at a dining room table for idle chitchat after eating.
  • smile if I have no reason to.

I never prefer not to…

  • make my bed if I’m the last one out of it.
  • clean dishes in the sink (I can’t stand seeing morning dishes when I come home from work).
  • read on any given day.
  • say yes to ice cream (unless it’s a green ice cream).
  • go to bed and get out of bed early.
  • teach myself something new (because my ignorance is the size of Indiana).
  • avoid public speaking.
  • spend money on books, music, and food.

2 thoughts on “I Would Prefer Not To…

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )


Connecting to %s